The Village
by How We Raise

However motherhood finds you, there’s a place for you here.

A softer kind of community for expecting mothers, new mums and parents looking for real connection — through walks, coffees, conversations, snail mail and the simple feeling of knowing you don’t have to do this alone.

Come as you are. You belong here. ♡
Valdebebas meet-ups · Mums’ Snail Mail · Online community
The Village by How We Raise
Parenting · Connection · Community
Is The Village for me?

Motherhood looks different for all of us.

You don’t need to know anyone. You don’t need to have it all together. And you definitely don’t need to wait until you’re struggling. The Village is simply somewhere to find your people.

01

Expecting your baby?

You don’t have to wait until your baby arrives to find your village. Come meet other mums-to-be, ask questions, make connections and have familiar faces around you before this new chapter even begins.

02

In the newborn bubble?

Feeding, sleeping, crying, recovering, adjusting — those early weeks can feel beautiful and overwhelming all at once. Come exactly as you are, baby included.

03

A little further along?

The need for connection doesn’t disappear once the newborn stage ends. Whether your little one is crawling, walking or well beyond, there is still space for you here.

04

Looking for your people?

Maybe you’re new to Madrid. Maybe your old friendships feel different. Maybe you simply want to know more mums nearby who understand this season of life.

There’s no right way to arrive here.
Just come as you are. ♡
Be part of The Village

There’s more than one way to be part of The Village.

Connection looks different for everyone. Choose the part of The Village that feels right for you — whether that’s meeting locally, receiving something thoughtful through your letterbox or finding community online.

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Valdebebas Meet-Ups

Walks, coffees & real conversation.

Relaxed meet-ups based in Valdebebas for mums and expecting mums from across Madrid. Come with the pram, the carrier, the baby, or simply yourself.

Explore meet-ups →
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Mums’ Snail Mail

A little piece of The Village through your letterbox.

Thoughtful letters, gentle reflections and small reminders that there is someone thinking of the woman behind Mum, too.

Discover Snail Mail →
03

Online Community

Your village, wherever you are.

A place for real conversation, everyday questions and connection with other mums — whether you’re in Madrid or hundreds of miles away.

Join online →
Connection doesn’t have to look one particular way. ♡
The Village meet-ups in Valdebebas
The Village · Valdebebas

Valdebebas, shall we go for a walk?

No agenda. No pressure. Just getting out of the house and finding your people.

The Village began with a very simple idea: sometimes what we need most is another mum to walk beside us.

Based in Valdebebas, our local meet-ups are relaxed spaces for expecting mums, new mums and mothers a little further along to meet, walk, grab a coffee and have a real conversation.

Come with the pram. Come with the carrier. Come five minutes late because the baby needed feeding. Come without knowing anybody. That’s exactly what The Village is for.

♡ Pram walks around Valdebebas
♡ Coffee mornings & casual meet-ups
♡ Expecting mums welcome
♡ Mums from across Madrid welcome too
Come to the next meet-up →
Babies, feeding stops, messy buns and unfinished coffees welcome. ♡
Mums’ Snail Mail

A little piece of The Village, through your letterbox.

Because not every kind of connection needs to happen on a screen.

Some days in motherhood feel incredibly full. Others can feel strangely small and a little lonely.

Mums’ Snail Mail is a monthly subscription created for the woman behind Mum — something thoughtful, personal and tangible to look forward to arriving through your letterbox.

Inside your envelope each month…
♡ A personal letter from The Village
♡ A thoughtful reflection on motherhood
♡ A gentle journal prompt or reflection card
♡ A beautiful affirmation or keepsake to save
♡ A little surprise from The Village
€12
/ month
Includes postage within Spain · Cancel anytime
Join Mums’ Snail Mail →
♡

Welcome to the Village

Dear Mum,

There is something nobody quite prepares you for about becoming a mother.

Suddenly, your world can feel both bigger and smaller than it ever has before.

There is this little person you could stare at forever. Days measured in feeds, naps, tiny noises and cups of tea you somehow never manage to finish.

And somewhere amongst all of that, there is still you.

Not the old you. Not only Mum.
You.

The Village is here to remind you that you don’t have to carry every part of motherhood on your own.

With love,

Charlotte ♡
The Village · by How We Raise
The Online Village

Your village, wherever you are.

Because sometimes you need someone who gets it — even when you can’t make it out for the walk.

Motherhood doesn’t always fit neatly around coffee mornings and meet-ups.

Sometimes the baby is sleeping. Sometimes leaving the house feels impossible. Sometimes you simply need to ask, “Is anyone else going through this?”

The Online Village is a place to connect with other mums, share the everyday bits of motherhood and find reassurance from people in the same season of life.

No perfect routines. No judgement. No pressure to keep up. Just real people and real conversations.

Real conversation

The questions, worries, wins and everyday moments that don’t always make it onto the polished parts of motherhood.

A familiar face

A space where names become familiar, conversations continue and community starts to feel a little more personal.

Gentle support

Somewhere to ask, share, listen and feel reassured without judgement or pressure to parent one particular way.

Connection from anywhere

Whether you’re in Valdebebas, elsewhere in Madrid or hundreds of miles away, there is still a place for you here.

Come for a question. Stay for the people. ♡
Join The Online Village →
Charlotte and Margot
A note from Charlotte

Somewhere along the way, I realised mothers need mothering too.

Before becoming a mum, I had spent years inside family homes — supporting children, listening to parents and helping through the messy mornings, difficult phases and everything in between.

I thought I understood how much motherhood asked of a woman.

And then I had Margot.

I discovered the strange contradiction of motherhood: you can be completely surrounded by love and still feel lonely. Your days can be fuller than they have ever been, while your world somehow becomes smaller.

Sometimes you don’t need advice. You don’t need someone to fix anything.

“Sometimes you just need somebody to say, ‘Me too. Shall we go for a walk?’”

That is really where The Village came from.

I wanted to create the kind of space where you don’t have to perform motherhood. Somewhere you can arrive tired, late, unsure, happy, overwhelmed — or all of those things at once.

Somewhere you are seen as the woman behind the mum, too.

And if The Village makes even one mother feel a little less alone, then it is doing exactly what I hoped it would.
With love,
Charlotte ♡
Welcome to The Village

Come as you are.
You belong here.

No perfect motherhood required.

Whether you join us for a walk in Valdebebas, find a letter waiting on your doormat or simply connect from wherever you are, The Village is here to make motherhood feel a little less lonely and a little more shared.

Valdebebas · Madrid · Snail Mail · Online
Your village might be closer than you think. ♡